Being a Man - Deconstructing a man!!!

What is it to be a man??
I asked myself this question so many times that and have come up with a different answer every time. Sometimes it was about being a good son, not drinking too much or not smoking or coming home in time and sometimes it was being a good boyfriend, being sensitive or being a good employee or being strong... the list is endless.. But finally I still am confused about what it is to be just a normal man encompassing all the roles and qualities that others around us want to see. So is being a man just about keeping everyone satisfied or is it just being human?? This is a question I throw to you my friends. Please do leave your remarks and ask questions...